Hello beautiful women, how are you? I'm Alex, recently turned 20 and REALLY need your advice. I a very shy guy and have a hard time talking to girls I meet, and I need to change that. I want to be more outgoing, however whenever I meet a very good looking girl I don't know what to say. Don't get me wrong I'm a charmer but initiating a conversation is the problem. I dress real nice, comb my hair, brush teeth, have very good respectable manners but for something reason girls don't notice me. This brings me down because I have to work twice as hard to get noticed when other guys get all the beautiful girls. I'm not not looking for sex, I just want to have a good time and meet girls that is all. You may think all guys are the same, BUT I am different. I respect women, and just need a little love in my life. So in conclusion what am I doing wrong? How can I be more outgoing and meet girls? Girls can I have your honest opinion on this please? Thanks in advance.
Alex
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kk heres wat u gotta do dress lyk a chav nd act lyk 1 spike up ur hair nd all dat crap
buh unlyk other chavs be nice 2 every1 nd be ur self 2 da gals
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Honestly, it dosn't really matter if you're shy or not, or at least, it dosn't matter very much. Just smiling and waving can make a girl feel nice. When guys smile at girls, they generly assume that whoever waves is nice. As far as convorsation, starting with hi and your name always works, just treat her like you would treat any friend that is a girl.
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go to places where you'll meet a lot of girls, like parties, but ones where people aren't getting wasted. strike up a conversation with a girl about something easy, like what school she goes to and once you find something in common it'll be fine. don't talk to her as though you really like her. if you guys hit it off, then let on that you're interested in her.
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hey you know what... some are just scared because we don't realize that there are a few of you guys out there who actually respect women. most you may see are the type who want one nighters....if there is some that want all what you have to offer. so maybe take a chance to. hope that helps out.
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It sounds like if you could start a conversation then everything would be fine. Try asking what her name is. BUT... don't use any lame pick up lines ( ex. you must be tired from running through my mind all night) After starting the conversation be your charming self and things will go uphill from there. Good luck
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Hey Alex! I don't think you're doing anything wrong, you're just shy, so it's a bit harder. I'm really shy myself, so I totally understand! It's no problem, though! I think a great way to help yourself feel more comfortable with starting a conversation would be to just start small, and work your way up. Like, one day, just say 'hi' to a girl. The next day, say 'hi, how are you doing?'. And, just work up from there! Also, find out what you two have in common- that always opens up a huge possibility of a great conversation! Just don't force yourself to be outgoing- it will be really uncomfortable, and you will seem unnatural. Just take it slow, and be yourself. Honestly, I really like shy guys, because they're really sweet and sincere- I know other girls do, too, so either way, I don't think you have too much to worry about! You seem like a really nice person! :-) Good luck!
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Wow Mr. right, I thought he was an Urban Legend... Lol.
Well it's obvious you are an amazing guy with a lot to offer a woman, what you need is some help showing a girl how great you truly are. It's fine if your shy a lot of girls think that's cute, but you need to find a way to grab their attention.
You could dress like a bad boy; girls would be all over you if they found out you have the bad boy look but not the bad boy attitude. The problem with that is hiding who you truly are. Don't change for woman because chances are they will know it's not the real you and that is a major turn off.
Why not ask a friend of yours to set you up for a double date. Maybe you will be more comfortable having a guy friend there with you when you talk to a potential girl friend. As a sort of moral support system. That way if you run out of things to say you have a friend to help start up the conversation again. (Girls use this trick all the time, why do you think we all hang out in groups?)
The trick is putting yourself in an environment and with people you feel comfortable with. If you don't like clubs then don't go to them, because it will show that you aren't really having fun. Go somewhere you enjoy and just have fun. This will make you much more approachable.
If you see a girl you like why not give her a compliment. That's sure to make them appreciate you, just make sure it's sincere. Girls know when a guy is being sincere and when he's just trying schmooze.
Ask her about her opinion or for her help. Lets say you meet her at a CD store then ask her is she can recommend some bands or Cd's. Just be friendly and don't try and force a conversation just let it come naturally.
I'm sure you will meet a great girl for you soon. Wow I wrote a lot. I hope it helped some.
Hang in there, and peace out.
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